UNDESERVING
- J.O. Ballance
- 2 days ago
- 2 min read
When I sit back and think about the times I have entertained empty conversations from an undeserving person, I realized that I cannot fault the person, because I had the power to walk away, I had the power to never allow an undeserving person in my space. It has been said that, “sometime in life, we make the mistake of giving certain people the places which they never deserve in our life.” An underserving person will display their truth with their selfish desires. It is more about them and less about you. When you look in the MIRROR and reflect on or over your life, accept the truth that what seems beneficial or desirable may be based on an untruth.
So, never permit an undeserving person to have control over your thoughts or actions. However, if you choose to provide the space for an undeserving person in your life, be prepared for the possibility that the results of making room in your life for someone who does not deserve it will be counterproductive to your personal development and contrary to your hopes and dreams.
As an undeserving person will make empty promises they cannot meet, and if you let yourself be emotionally and spiritually drained by clinging to those promises, you will end up wearing nothing but emptiness—by surrounding yourself with undeserving people, it can birth negative feelings that can become detrimental to your overall health.
So, it is critical for an individual to have self-confidence, to know your self-worth, be determined to move to the beat of your own drum, and never depend on an undeserving person for your happiness. Empower yourself by understanding that you are stronger than the fear of loneliness as loneliness is a state of mind.
An undeserving person may paint the picture that you are lonely and all of your hope and desires are dependent upon them, which is not the case. Spending time alone in a peaceful environment has several benefits, including boosting creativity, reducing stress, improving mental clarity, gaining insight into oneself, and planning your life's trajectory—it will allow you to be unapologetically strong and live your life authentically. Coming home to oneself and being greeted by inner serenity is the ultimate source of happiness.
In MIRROR MIRROR the protagonist danced with an undeserving person and life became an emotional whirlwind. It is important to acknowledge and accept reality as reality can break the chains of an undeserving person and set you FREE.
Closed the Door to the undeserving person!
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